I read a blog today titled, Singled Out. The author wrote something that made me smile with a new realization.
“When I meet another single Christian woman in her 30s, I automatically envision how God has used her singleness to teach her wisdom, selflessness, self-control, joy, patience, and faith because that’s what God has done in my own life.”
I love this! I don’t think many people automatically envision these qualities. And, I sometimes forget, that is exactly what being single has taught me.
While singleness has of course at times brought about feelings of loneliness, what I have learned and how I have grown during this season has been invaluable.
Our society often views singleness as a curse. I can sometimes sense the pity from others when they find out I am single, but I can honestly say that I am content. I know that God has used this time in my life to shape me into a stronger and better woman. During this season of my life my relationship with my Savior has grown and He has been preparing me to be a better wife for the man I will one day marry.
Thank you Jesus for being with me every step of the way. For comforting me in my pain, reassuring me in my doubt, and using this time in my life to make me a better woman. Thank you for helping me become a woman with:
Wisdom. Selflessness. Self-Control. Joy. Patience. Faith.